Yes, you’re hot and bothered, and yes, you’re saying all these things you want to do to them and you want them to do to you, but suddenly, these words don’t just disappear after the moment is over. That being said, sexting changes the game a bit. In that sense, being hot and bothered is great (and also how many people discover new kinks)! We’re all for curiosity and experimentation. Being in the mood allows you to let go of those doubts and just go for it. Perhaps there was something you wanted to try and you felt shy trying to talk about it in the middle of lunch, or perhaps you wanted to do something and just saying it out loud felt like too much. Let’s start with the obvious and say that consent *must* be involved every step of the way, but I’m talking about something else here. Anything and everything that happens while you’re doing it is, well, enveloped by the throes of passion… which oftentimes allows us to be bolder and step out of our comfort zone because in the moment, it feels right. We understand how sex works – you meet up with someone, you do whatever turns both of you on, maybe you cuddle, maybe you don’t, and you call it a night. Now, while I evidently agree with this statement, and from what you tell me, so do you, it’s also true that it opens a variety of possibilities one had likely not thought about before. Thank you for allowing me to tackle a very important matter at any time, but even more so during quarantine: sexting.Īround mid-April, when this whole COVID thing we’ve gotten so used to was still relatively new, a press conference held by the Argentine government quickly became the talk of the town when virtual sex, or sexting, was one of the Health Minister’s recommendations of things to do to keep sane during quarantine (btw – nothing but respect for *my* Health Minister). It’s not about the pic itself – it’s more about the fact I don’t *actually* know this dude, even if we’ve been talking for 50+ days. A few days back, amidst a hot and heavy convo, a boy requested a nude pic… and I suddenly got all shy about it. Now, with no chance of meeting up, convos have covered every imaginable topic (this is great) including sex (also great). Right before quarantine I had downloaded a dating app and started talking to a few peeps.
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